Yesterday morning I got a text on my phone from dh's ex girlfriend who happen's to be his 10 year old daughter's mother. She texted me to have dh text her she needs to talk to him about visitation. Mind you the last time dh had visitation with his daughter was when she was 2 years old. At that time my dh was convicted and put on the sex offender list. (he had sex with his 15 year old girlfriend who claimed she was 18 when he was 20 and got caught by her parents. They pressed charges and he got put on the sex offender list.) Well when his ex found out she took him to court and had his visitation revoked. We have not heard from her in 7 years. He pays his child support in full and on time every month, he keeps health insurance on her and sends her money for her birthday and christmas every year. Well his ex told dh that their daughter keeps asking about dh and wants to see him. Dh said if she wanted to see me he'd be open to seeing her. The ex then started saying untrue stuff about how he walked out on their daughter when she was 2 years old, he's never made any attempt to keep in contact with his daughter and saying how he's a piece of shit basically. My dh reminded her about taking him to court to revoke his visitation. Then she started going on about how he is a registered sex offender and again a piece of shit. Dh told her he wasn't getting into it with her that if his daughter wanted to see her he was more than willing to see her. She started going on about taking him to court. That she was going to let their daughter testify and get her day in court. Dh asked her what she was trying to prove and she said nothing, but you'd be surprised what I can do your on the sex offender list. Nothing more was said. I was on my facebook and saw she had posted something about dh on her facebook. She posted my dh's full name and his offense. Then went on to say that he was a pos dad who doesn't know anything. That he better get ready he's seeing his daughter even if she has to take him to court he owes it to his daughter. I showed dh that and he contacted his ex. He asked her to not post any comment on facebook regarding him it's unwarrented. She told dh that she will post whatever she wants on facebook and he could kiss her ass. My dh told me that he was all up for seeing his daugther, but after the behavior his ex displayed he doesn't want to chance anything. He's thinking about not taking visitation with his daughter. IDK what he should do? Has he done anything wrong?
on Aug. 7, 2012 at 8:40 AM