I'm completely emotionally exhausted and physically from stuff that has been going on in my life. Like my husband cheating on me with my bestfriend. He is going to counseling and working on trying to make it up too me which, well let's face it, it's going to take a looong time. My trust in him and my friends have been broken. Then to top it off last night I found a rather large lump in my right breast. I'm trying to be strong and not worry but it's near impossible! I got an appointment for 2:30 today. I just wish I had some family out here to lean on. Sucks feeling alone. Sorry for the rant, I had to get it out. :(
Hi,
I am sorry you are going through a very tough time right now.Being cheated on by two people close to you would challenge even the strongest person.
Right now your priority is your health....both physically and mentally.Do what you need to do to get better and contact your friends and family you can trust.
I wish you all the best in everything.
Blessings and strength,Tia
Quoting surfgrl60:Why is this featured? This is everyday stuff. I have a lot more shit going on then you. Its called LIFE.
I also agree very,very uncalled for!!!!.And I am sure someone else has lots more going on in there life also!!.
For the OP *HUGS TO YOU*Were all here for you:)
Quoting crashmomma3:
She didnt need your negative comment she was just looking for some support..... we all have rough times and just need a little back up....... if you want suppose post your own shit.... til then leave this poor girl alone.... and op i am sorry your friend and man decided this was good behavior.... and hope your exam shows everything is ok
Quoting surfgrl60:
Why is this featured? This is everyday stuff. I have a lot more shit going on then you. Its called LIFE.
Quoting jhslove:If it helps to keep you calm, remember that 85% of breast lumps are benign. My mom just had one last year, and it turned out to be nothing. Do you have a friend who can go with you to the doctor?
No unfortunately I do not. Not sure what to do about my almost 3 year old when I have to get a Mammo and ultrasound... siigh
Man, you are just a ball of effin sunshine, aren't you?? Every post I've seen you comment in, you are so negative! You should try being nice for once. Ya know, more flies with honey kind of thing?? Damn.
Quoting surfgrl60:Why is this featured? This is everyday stuff. I have a lot more shit going on then you. Its called LIFE.
Good luck with the lump thing! My mom's had breast cancer twice and has beat it both times. Let us know what you find out!
If you have nothing good to say, keep it to yourself !!!
Really???? That's the answer you receive when you ask for support or help???? I'm sorry for you if that's the case. Here you could find nice people to talk to, sometimes we need to vent and this is a good place to do it.
I'm very sorry if you are having a hard time
Quoting surfgrl60:Why is this featured? This is everyday stuff. I have a lot more shit going on then you. Its called LIFE.
I'm very sorry, two big things at the same time. Just focus on yourself, you can worry about your husband after you.
I know is very hard to keep calm and to stop thinking about it. It's true that 85% of the times is benign. I also had a tumor that was removed and now I have another one.
My advise is don't look in internet for information, not all the info we can find there is correct, or don't start thinking that is something wrong because it moves or it doesn't move, that will make you be worrier.
Wait until you have all the test done and please, keep us posted. You are not alone.
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Is it ok to kill the first? :)
- ToniTennille
on Aug. 17, 2012 at 12:07 PM