I feel so bad for my DH. When we were all still in high school, he hung out with like 4 guys. They were his buds...they were a close group. He's still "friends" with most of them, and has made a couple of other friends since high school. He works a ton though, so he doesn't get to hang out a bunch or meet new people.
Well, since high school, he kind of stopped talking to one guy...he moved about an hour away and their interests are just so dissimilar now. Another guy joined the Navy right after high school and lives in Virginia now (they still talk when he's home but they don't come home more than once or twice a year). Another guy lives in Hawaii so there is like no communication there anymore at all. And then the last high school friend and DH hardle ever talk anymore because the friend's wife doesn't like DH (really, none of us like her either...she's a raging B). So, he really doesn't talk to any of his high school friends anymore.
He's made a couple of friends through my friends (my best friend started dating a guy and DH and him hit it off and were friends instantaneously and then him and I also became friends with a couple who had just moved to town...she is still one of my best friends). Well, the guy that started dating my best friend, they were going to get married but my friend called off the wedding four days prior and left him (turns out she'd been being emotionally and mentally abused their entire relationship). There's a whole backstory to that but her and I cut communications for awhile. When her and I reconciled, her ex just stopped talking to us. DH and I have both reached out to him, but he will not talk to us.
The other guy (who's married to one of best friends) was okay for awhile. He's always seemed like he felt he was entitled and thought he was better/smarter than everyone else, but for the most part we could all stand it. Within the last few months though, he got horrible and none of us can stand to be around him at all. He's become a monster of a friend, husband and father. And none of us want anything at all to do with him (thankfully he travels a lot for work). So, now DH has like no friends...except for my girl friends and me. He talks to guys at work, but it's not like they hang out or he can call and just chat with one of them. And when one of them does call him, all they talk about is work.
He's had friends other than this, but well I won't get into why he doesn't talk to a couple of them anymore. But, how do I help him? I feel horrible and just want to cry when he says he wishes he had guy friends to talk to. What can I do?