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Have you ever.... Update at bottom..New update at bottom (After pics)

Posted by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:08 PM
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....had the gut feeling about something and had everyone tell you that it's just wishful thinking and that you're crazy??

I have this HUGE gut feeling that my ex DF and his current GF aren't going to last. Everyone tells me that it's just wishful thinking. I seriously doubt it. Whenever I have a gut feeling about something it's almost always, like 99.99% of the time, right.

I hate that people tell me that I am just wishing that it doesn't work out. I'm not wishing that at all. I just know so much about him that I know that she's not the one for him. There are things that I know about her by looking at her Facebook page that I know that he doesn't agree with. Like she has a tongue ring, MAJOR turn off for him. Plus he never smiles in pics with her. He always did with me.


I will say what pic is what Sunday ( the 23rd) if I don't get any more replies by then.


Okay, the first pic is me and ex DF. Someone said that he looks like he was saying cheese in the first. We were laughing at something that his uncle had said right before taking the pic. The second pic is of ex DF and his now current GF. The majority of you said that he looks happier in the first and I agree. His GF, Tanya, is a HUGE bitch and thinks that she knows everything. I have talked to her on the phone (he demanded that I call) and she immediately called me a whore. I am not one and she doesn't know anything about me. 

For those that wanted to know why I care about whether or not they last..it's because I still care about him. I always will. I know more about him than anyone in his life will. There are some things that he has told me that his own family doesn't know about him. I know what he wants in life and just by talking to Tanya I know that she is definitely not the right girl for him. Am I saying that I am?? No, not in the least. 

All of this being said I appreciate that no one bashed me. I was actually surprised at that. Thank you ladies for your opinions. 

Posted by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:08 PM
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mom2gr8tgirls
by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:13 PM

It didn't work out with you guys, maybe he's trying something different?  I'd stop commenting to others about his relationship.

3nhvn1onearth
by on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:16 PM

I doubt that because he loves things to stay the same. She does look a little like me and everything. I feel that he's just trying to find a new me. I feel that he still loves me and is too afraid to say anything.

Quoting mom2gr8tgirls:

It didn't work out with you guys, maybe he's trying something different?  I'd stop commenting to others about his relationship.


thecoffeefairy
by Member on Sep. 19, 2012 at 10:22 PM
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That sounds like you need to let it go. It really doesn't matter if they last or not. You are already his ex. For a reason.
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Janet
by Platinum Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 8:31 AM

 It sounds like you want him back. Did he break up with you for her?

Maks1mommy
by Member on Sep. 20, 2012 at 8:32 AM
I had a gut feeling I was having a girl, and I did. But I don't have any feeling about this one yet.
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la_bella_vita
by Bella on Sep. 20, 2012 at 10:35 AM

 It sounds like you are not over him.

splatz
by Sarah on Sep. 20, 2012 at 10:52 AM
I agree.

Quoting thecoffeefairy:

That sounds like you need to let it go. It really doesn't matter if they last or not. You are already his ex. For a reason.
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3nhvn1onearth
by on Sep. 21, 2012 at 7:48 PM

No he didn't 

Quoting Janet:

 It sounds like you want him back. Did he break up with you for her?


I'll stand
With arms high and heart abandoned
In awe of the one who gave it all
I'll stand
My soul Lord to you surrendered
All I am is yours
NicLof2
by Member on Sep. 21, 2012 at 7:51 PM
Yep


Quoting splatz:

I agree.



Quoting thecoffeefairy:

That sounds like you need to let it go. It really doesn't matter if they last or not. You are already his ex. For a reason.

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splatz
by Sarah on Sep. 21, 2012 at 10:49 PM

???? There are no pictures... 

Quoting 3nhvn1onearth:


I will say what pic is what tomorrow (Saturday (the 22nd)) if I don't get any more replies by then.


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