so Ive been married for 2 yrs. I have 2 children (4 & 2 yr old). About 2 weeks ago I found out I was pregnant again. I was on birth control to prevent this but obviously it didn't work. Well now my husband wants me to get an abortion cuz he doesn't want another one. Problem is I have never believed in it. Well I went in the hospital due to having cramps and all he could think about while being there was for the docs to give me a "pill" to start a miscarriage. I live my husband and have always supported him in anything and everything he has wanted to do. But now I don't think he is going to be there for me. I keep thinking he will leave me If I keep the baby. But then I think if I don't he will leave me cuz he won't be able to give the support I might need. I don't know what to do. Any advice?
Everytime I talk to him he gets mad at me and says get an abortion.
Please no bashing. I'm only looking for advice and what you did (if this happened to you)
Everytime I talk to him he gets mad at me and says get an abortion.
Please no bashing. I'm only looking for advice and what you did (if this happened to you)
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on Sep. 22, 2012 at 9:46 PM
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on Sep. 24, 2012 at 9:48 AM
I'd kick him out the door maybe a family member or friend can leave u stay with them. I'd pick my kids over my husband anyway they are my blood I love my husband but that love isn't the same I feel for my kids good luck hun
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on Sep. 24, 2012 at 10:36 PM
I want to cry... I'm not able to have kids. I've tried different fertility treatments and don't work. For me to read what you wrote is hard, very hard. Please, please, please... don't do it. I would love to have one on my own and I can't, you have been blessed.
Talk to him, make him understand that there are other options. Nobody who loves you should put you in that position, that's crazy! Remember that YOU have the right to decide.
I hope you make the right decision
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- navywife011
on Sep. 22, 2012 at 9:46 PM