My ex is dating a new girl.
She knows of his physical abuse, and he's 28, works 15 hours at a pizza place and is failing out of school..
I understand why they are dating. She doesn't have custody of her son, and is out on bond waiting for trial.
I just don't understand females, and why they allow themselves to be used like he is using her. She's been with all his friends, and has now settled on my ex. Gross. Sorry. I'm done lol
No, no I would not. I have in the past, though, when I was young with a lack of self esteem.
Quoting MWV85:they sound like they are meant for eachother.
My ex-husband has a girlfriend and I have said from the start "she is as stupid as I used to be" However, I think she is dumber then I was because she is getting ready to marry this man that is behind in child support and alimony, he refuses to pay his share of our child's medical bills and he does not take proper care of her when she is in his care either. He can not support his girlfriend or the 3 kids she has. Not to mention he is pulling the same crap with her that he did with me while dating(borrowing money, staying at her place to get out paying rent). I wonder if he has become emotionally and verbally abusive with her yet.
But to answer you question no I would not
no, i would not date a man that had no interest in his children.
But that's because I have children of my own, and they come first, before anything... and if I guy can't even raise his own child, how is he going to put up with someone else's? Well, he's not, that's how!
beats me too. My ex-husband gave up rights to his child from his first marriage while he and I were together. (Long story, but the adoption by the step father was for the best) so that told me that he did not care. At the time, he and I had three children and things were going down hill anyways. We ended up getting a divorce and he does not support his children, or even come see them. He had a vasectomy after the birth of our third child. He is now dating a woman who does not have custody of her own child because she is unfit mother (as deemed by CPS, she gave her child to her parents and took off for a while with no contact), and SHE has the nerve to be pissed at ME, thinking I made my ex-hubs get the V, because, get this, SHE WANTS A KID WITH HIM! SMDH. Oy.....
Not to mention she is not working, and he is 28 and on disability because he was able to trick a judge into believing his bipolar is so bad that he can not work. How the hell would they raise a kid anyways?
Sorry, end of rant.
I think you've already answered your own question on why she would date your ex:
-She's out on bond waiting trial
-She doesn't have custody of her son
-She's been with all his friends and has settled with your ex
Point in case, the chick has no standards and sounds like she is using your ex almost as much as he is her, maybe they're meant for each other.
As for if I would date a man that had no interest in his child and didn't pay support.... No, not even if that man were filthy rich, or the last man on earth, but then again I do have standards and I don't settle.
Nervous
Is it ok to kill the first? :)
- recovered55
on Oct. 1, 2012 at 9:29 PM