so, the plan for today was to get school done (we homeschool), have lunch, let the little ones take a nap & then go shopping for fall clothes/shoes/jackets, etc... All morning, I've made it clear that in order to do that, the play room & bed rooms have to be clean. What are the kids doing? Yelling, screaming, fighting....basically NOT cleaning. I just let them know there will be no shopping trip today & we'll try again tomorrow. They have all told me I'm horribly mean.