I am new to this group but in need of some help without being bashed and disrespected.
I have 2 kids, DD is 1 and DS is 3. I am married to a 41 year old and I am 23. I got married when I was 19(his idea not mine) anway, me and DH had an arguement over something really dumb. His other kids wanted to go to the library and he wasn't feeling to well, I offered my time to go take them. He started the arguement not me! He satated that he never goes anywahere alone(which thats a fat lie) and that I always go where ever. I told him that he was wrong because I am always stuck in the house with the babies. I also said I didn't want to take any kids so I can get some stuff that I need to get done. That started something, well he complained on how I can leave the kids there for 30 minutes while he is sick. I do it all the time and he should be use to it because he has 6 other kids, right? Apparently I'm wrong, the mother of the kids did it til about 5 years old then he stepped in, like WTF dude? So, who is wrong in being upset? I am upset because he obviously don't see where I'm coming from and he is mad because I expressed how I felt about this topic. I see nothing wrong with him when he goes places but when I go try going somewhere, he becomes sick. I love dh with all my heart and sometimes he gets on my nerves. I just want some free time with no one in the way.