So giving all the details would take forever. Basically, my former best friend and I have drifted apart recently because she is kind of a follower and I didn't fit in with her new crowd. Real quick. She and her husband just split up. They took in her brother, then her brother's two friends. Her husband soon accused her of being too flirtatious with on of the friends who is 18, they would cuddle, fall asleep on the couch ect. He moved out and low and behold look who she's dating and yes she was cheating. We know this bc her of following conversation her dd had with her dad in front of on of our mutual friends
"Are you and mommy breaking up?"
"I don't know sweetie but all you need to know is that we both love you no matter what."
"Will you stay with mommy if I make her stop sleeping with Melvin." Apparently she sometimes locks her out of the room and she can hear her screaming but that's not why I want to call.
Her house is now some kind of demented half way house for teens and they have destroyed it. No on cleans, according to one of our friends (she won't let me come over bc other people have freaked out on her) it's in no way suitable for little kids, the 2 dogs, 2 cats and 2 chinchillas just poop on the floor and the smell is revolting. Everything is dirty.
Her daughter smells bad, to the point that its beyond just playing outside and she has had random rashes on her.
She bleached her 5 year old dd head so she could dye her hair pink and blue, this left bald patches.
BC she isn't paying her bills she pulled her dd out of the small private school she was in but didn't sign her up right away for public school. When she did sign her up it was a 1 1/2 weeks before she got to go back bc the school wouldn't let her in with the crazy hair. She didn't tell her ex and he didn't find out until his dd told him she wasn't going to school. He fixed her hair right away so she could go to school. The hair dresser took pity on him and fixed it for $35 even though she was there all night trying to keep it from falling out or getting worse. I saw the texts my friend sent him and she was pissed that he fixed her hair w/o permission bc she wants their dd to be free to "express herself" and "be artistic." The kids head looked like a snow cone just like the little teens she has living with her.\
She had her dd 3 feet away from a moving train, "enjoying the feeling of being alive" it gives her, she let her walk at night on train tracks with her and her boyfriend. This worries me bc grown men have been sucked under fast moving trains and you shouldn't teach kids to play on train tracks.
She let her dd watch as her brother and her new boyfriend climbed billboards.
Her new boyfriend and some 16 year old boy that she took in walk around naked around her 5 year old dd
She lets her dd get in bed with her and 18 year old new boyfriend when he's still naked and her dd knows that he's naked.
they all do drugs and pass out in her bed or on the floor together and she told me that since everybody takes turns sleeping her her bed with her and Scarlett that Scarlett won't know or put together that she and NBF were together before and right after her dh split, which obviously she has.
Oh, yes and yesterday she let her dd watch as she towed her new boyfriend with her car while he rode his skateboard.
So I called the police and they did a welfair check. The officer told me that he did point out some issues in the home, overly dirty fridge, pet stains, smell of pets ect because he knows that CPS would tell her to fix them. He didn't talk to her about the sleeping arangment but said that CPS likes that she has her own bed. (The kid climbs in bed with her mom almost every night) or about her saying she was scared when mommy's screaming and the door is locked. I don't know if it was brough up to him, he was mostly just checking for immediate danger. So the mom posts on Facebook that whoever got the cops called on her needs to stop fucking with her bc she's a great mom and the cop liked everything he saw and all they did was make her daughter hysterical. So I guess it won't scare her straight. The dad (who she has bashed at every turn) told the cops she was a good mom. Presumably because he doesn't want to have to take care of her. I texted her and told her that she's making people worried with all the stuff she's posting, that she isn't herself and that she's making a mess of her life. She told me that playing on the train tracks, climbing billboards is a normal kid thing and that they wouldn't fine her for that. I'm fairly sure that it is illegal, just like car surfing and doesn't she think that the neighbors might be concerned about her kid seeing this stuff? I can't even bring up the other stuff because she'll just lie. I don't know if calling CPS will help. There isn't any physical evidence that these kids are wandering around naked or anything. The officer did say that there was food for her dd, and that she had marked it to keep the room mates from eating it. He also said he told her that having roommates who don't pay rent and live there for free is not an excuse for a dirty house, they need to spend their time cleaning. I told him it wasn't the first time she heard that.