Do you enjoy entertaining/ having people visit your home?
Why or why not?
It seems like everyone I know loves having people over. I have always felt awkward/uncomfortable with people being over. My house is never feels clean enough (even if it is spotless). It is a huge relief for me when people go home. I'm pretty sure there is something wrong with me, lol.
I also have the dog problem. We have crates. Or if it is nice they can go outside and play. We have a fenced in back yard,
Quoting goddess99:
I don't care to have people over either. We have a large dog who gets very excited so we have to put her in another room and I hate that.
NA , PPL COME IN UR HOUSE AND THEN GO HOME AND TALK ABOUT IT . THEY ALWAYS SPOT SOMETHING U MISSED AND ALTHOUGH IT DIDNT SEEM DIRTY AFTER THEY LEFT=U FIND AREALLY DIRTY MISSED SPOT AND THEY WANT TO HELP U WITHIT! I TELL THEM IF THEY WANT TO CRITIZE STAY THE HELL AWAY!!! AND I DONT APPRECIATE U LOOKING FOR STUFF TO SAY ABOUT MY HOUSE. DID U COME TO VISIT ME ARE OR U HERE FOR A SPOT INSPECTION? THE HOUSE IS OLD AND SOMETHING IS ALWAYS BROKE OR GETTING READY TO SELFDESTRUCT..MRSKATHLEEN
I'm the same as you OP, the whole scenario STRESSES me out, always a huge relief when everyone goes home.
lol she does want love but most people can't take the blow of a 80 pound dog running full speed at them lol
Quoting splatz:
Aww but she is soo cute! She just wants love too. :)Quoting goddess99:I don't care to have people over either. We have a large dog who gets very excited so we have to put her in another room and I hate that.
lol....I like people but hosting is not my favorite either....you're not alone....
Quoting splatz:Why or why not?
It seems like everyone I know loves having people over. I have always felt awkward/uncomfortable with people being over. My house is never feels clean enough (even if it is spotless). It is a huge relief for me when people go home. I'm pretty sure there is something wrong with me, lol.
There are only a few people I don't mind coming to my home because their visit isn't about me entertaining them rather it's a visit and we're all relaxed enough around them, they around us that it's not forced, stressful or dull.
I think I probably wouldn't mind having people over as much if our house was bigger. We just have a couch & no other seating in the living room. So if we have guests over we have to sit on the floor while the guests get the couch. Or sit on kitchen chairs. I guess my home just isn't fit for entertaining. Oh well, works for me!
Quoting timefor2:I actually prefer to go to someone else's house, but don't mind having friends/family here as well.
Nervous
- splatz
on Nov. 14, 2012 at 1:26 PM