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When does the pain end??

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The father of my son and I are no longer together and its for the best. We were together for a few years and broke up a few months before our son was born. He cheated and cheated and cheated some more.

I have two other children from a previous relationship and they loved him. One is old enough to know what happened, the other too young to understand.

When I look at my babies I'm so sad because I know they want me to try again and find love. I can't see myself with another man. He treated me so bad and my heart just have too many scars. It would be nice to meet someone, but I know I won't allow anyone to get close to myself or my children.

by on Nov. 22, 2012 at 7:12 PM
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by on Nov. 23, 2012 at 11:27 AM
That is very sad. I think you can find relief from your pain by redemption through your savior. My heart goes out to you and your children.
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by Jennifer on Nov. 23, 2012 at 4:12 PM

Don't rush it. When the right guy comes along you will now.

by on Nov. 23, 2012 at 4:29 PM
It never ends it just gets easier. I'm sorry you are going through this I would only wish this on the worst of my enemies . This is one of the worst pains to ever experience.
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by on Nov. 23, 2012 at 9:56 PM

I am so sorry. It will take time but you will get there again! *hugs*

by Platinum Member on Nov. 25, 2012 at 10:50 AM

Hugs...hope things work out....

by Amanda on Nov. 25, 2012 at 11:01 AM

it all just takes time, hun. *HUGS*

by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 11:45 PM

It will just take time. Right now focus on you and your children. When the time is right you will know.

by on Nov. 28, 2012 at 11:52 PM

Good for you - you need to concentrate on raising the babies you have.  And no, your babies do not want you to "try again and find love" (how can they - the little one doesn't even know what's going on).  They want you to raise them, not leave them w/a sitter while you try to find someone to love - you have people to love - little people who need you more than you need a man.

by on Nov. 29, 2012 at 12:12 AM

I know I hated when people told me, "Take your time!" or "wait, be single for a year or two!" but the more I do this, the more I realize that they were right. It isn't easy but if you can do it then you will be stronger for it, I wish you the best! I hope someone amazing does come along for you someday :)

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