I swear, sometimes I just wanna slap my hubby. >.> He expects me to pretty much do everything wit h our baby, feed him and change him and hold him when he's fussy, and then gets mad at me when I don't have the energy for sex. And when he does, I'm just sitting there thinking..."Well, maybe if you would help me out every once in a while...maybe, I wouldn't be so damn tired!" He does help out...occasionally. He's changed a total of five or ten diapers since our son was born...and he's almost six months old. Okay, granted, he cannot help feed the baby because he's EBF but there is a lot of other stuff he could do to help.
For example, the other night I wanted to take a nice hot relaxing shower because I had a headache. I told hubby this and low and behold, five minutes later hubbby brought the baby in there because "he was crying" so I had to strip him and bring him in the shower with me. And trying to shower with an almost 15 pound baby in your arms!!
Sorry this was so long, I just felt like I needed to rant. The hubby is also too "busy" sleeping, on the video game, or on the computer to hold him. I told him the other day that is the reason he prefers mommy because I'm the one always holding him. Hell, his brothers hold our son more than he does!!!