My s/o pay child support and we have money put to the side so if his kids need money for sports or anything we have it and give it to them. So i have been thinking if i should ask my x (father of my 2 girls) if he could help pay for the girls dance. I do get child support.. NO i am not a money hungry bitch.. The girls love to go to dance class. and usually i dont need help with it unitl like now. When i need to have a down payment for their recital dresses. I have been trying different ways on asking him. A part of me doesn't want to ask him cause i know he will tell me..A) I give you cs B) dont i give you enough. Right now he lives in a diffferent state, but is plaining on moving back here to be closer to the girls...i was thinking about waiting till he moves back to ask... What would you ladies do?
Quoting Ms.Maaamaof2:Just ask!
Child support is a fraction of a childs living expenses and does not include anything extra for a child to have an enjoyment, unless the custodial parent pays out of pocket.
well at first he said how much..and i said anything he could afford...then he said he didnt see why he couldnt...i dont care if its only 20 atleast he is helping.
Quoting Mommyof2114:
What did he say
Quoting arilolojrsmom:well at first he said how much..and i said anything he could afford...then he said he didnt see why he couldnt...i dont care if its only 20 atleast he is helping.
Quoting Mommyof2114:
What did he say
but we will see the end of jan if i get anything the next payment for dance is due in feb... or i will get well i thought i could but i didnt have enough...i hope he prove me wrong..
Quoting Mommyof2114:
That's awesome!
Quoting arilolojrsmom:well at first he said how much..and i said anything he could afford...then he said he didnt see why he couldnt...i dont care if its only 20 atleast he is helping.
Quoting Mommyof2114:
What did he say
You must have caught him in a good mood. I'm happy for you!
Quoting arilolojrsmom:
ok so i asked him and he shocked me. 1st he asked how much and i said whatever he can give me.. then he said he doesnt see why no. i fell on the floor..
Quoting arilolojrsmom:but we will see the end of jan if i get anything the next payment for dance is due in feb... or i will get well i thought i could but i didnt have enough...i hope he prove me wrong..
Quoting Mommyof2114:
That's awesome!
Quoting arilolojrsmom:well at first he said how much..and i said anything he could afford...then he said he didnt see why he couldnt...i dont care if its only 20 atleast he is helping.
Quoting Mommyof2114:
What did he say
You're a good mom!
Do you turn your kid loose in the kitchen?
- arilolojrsmom
on Dec. 8, 2012 at 10:51 AM