OK, so here is my issue with my inlaws... 8 years ago they told my dh that our daughter wasnt his, he kicked us out because of it, she is his child and no I did not cheat on him, they denied her because she was born with really dark hair like I had when I was born. Since then I have tried over and over again to start fresh with them and it always backfires on me, I have done everything in my power to try to forgive them for hurting me to my core by denying my child, but the more I see them, the more angry I get. My mil says the most hurtful things to me all the time when my dh isnt in the room. Her most recent comment was " I never wanted Josh to get married or have children" WTF!!! What am I supposed to do with that info?? All I could say to her was Sorry?? Nothing I ever do is good enough for them ever, we are supposed to be there for christmas and I dont want to go because i know its going to be hell for me. I am seriously thinking about getting a divorce because my dh doesnt do anything to make them stop, or to make things better for me, we moved here in July to be near them and its my living hell.