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seriously??!!

Posted by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 8:34 PM
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 So my dh is the one that gets the mail usually, so today when the mailman came, i signed for a certified letter.  I opened it, and it was a garnishment letter from the court!!!  He apparently didnt pay off his old truck and now they are freezing our account til March!!  I called the bank to see if there was any way of setting up a payment plan but they wouldnt talk to me because I am not on the loan, so I spoke with dh when he got home and he was pissed, I couldnt understand why he never called about the letters he was getting in the mail regaurding his bill. 

I went to talk to my mil about it, to ask her advice and she kept saying she couldnt help us, I told her I didnt want her help just wanted to talk.  so after I left there, she called here and told him that I went over there asking for money!!  dh knew what happened because I told him before she called, so he set her straight on that part, but she went on that I need to get off my ass and get a job, knowing that I could hear every word she was saying.  So now I am taking a leave of abscense from school because I can't afford to go anymore and going to put in apps for a job.  I hate that he has done this to us and our children, I just hope I can find a job to keep us afloat...

by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 8:34 PM
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Ansemom
by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 8:39 PM
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WOW! Well yes you need to get a job. I guess you knew that though. I think you also need to step up and take the financial reins. I wonder what else your husband isn't telling you.

MichelleMc
by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 8:58 PM
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Wow. I can't believe he blew it off. I for sure wouldn't go talk to her about it though. She might have thought that you were hinting for the money & hinting that you were bashing him ( though he did totally drop the ball ) So she reacted. I don't agree with how she went about it, at all. Though it is true you are going to have to take a leave of absense from school & get a job. Just how it is going to be. 

cookinmommyof1
by Bronze Member on Dec. 26, 2012 at 9:05 PM
I have a friend who has both her and her dh's checks direct deposited into her account and she puts money in his account when necessary. He has a problem with payday advance places and blowing money on stupid shit like fake samurai swords. And we had a friend who divorced nhis wife because he didn't know she hadn't made their mortgage payment in 6 months. It was the one bill she was in charge of and he thought that it was automatically withdrawan from her account. Then the sheriff came knocking serving papers on them.
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Janet
by Ruby Member on Dec. 26, 2012 at 9:12 PM
I'm sorry this happened to you. You have to suffer for what DH did. I would be furious!
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Pammi86
by Pamela on Dec. 26, 2012 at 10:13 PM
Sorry mama. : (
lillucky8
by on Dec. 26, 2012 at 10:15 PM
Thats terrible. Sorry.
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MichelleMc
by on Dec. 27, 2012 at 8:49 AM

I hope it can get things squared away. Its a rough situation. Good Luck. 

MichelleMc
by on Dec. 27, 2012 at 8:56 AM

Hope you can find a job quickly. Hugs. 

Reankanesmom
by on Dec. 27, 2012 at 9:59 AM

WHy in the world would he not tell you about this sooner before it got this way. I am sorry hun. I wish you the best. 

goddess99
by Michelle on Dec. 27, 2012 at 11:59 AM

I'm so sorry. Hope everything works out.

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