My little guys father is a professional manipulator!! One of the many reasons I FINALLY left him.
Story is, one of my older ds20 has been asking xh for months to spend a weekend with ds7. Xh always replies thru texting with a "sorry, we have plans"....We'll I created a page (on facebook) for my ds7 that focuses on his medical issues and is a support group or just somewhere where family, friends, old doctors and nurses of my ds7 can go to see how he is doing. I finally allowed his xh to be part of the page. AFTER months of thinking about it. (Bad idea, but thats a whole other POST...lol)
Anyway since my ds20 would always get shut down for a visitations with sd7, my sd20 decided to go to the page and simply ask if he could have ds7 for the weekend. There was no response until the next morning. And it simply said " yes,. he would like that"....my ds20 never responded back and just took the win for a win. Well ds7 had visitation with xh last night, this morning he comes home devistated because xh told him he could only stay half the weekend with ds20. Ds7 said that xh made him feel bad because ds7 wanted to stay the whole weekend and starting drilling him to say he would only stay half a weekend.
Why would he do that to his own child? needless to say i am not discussing it with xh, its a waste of my breathe and time, nor has he contacted me about the change. So I will allow my ds7 to go to his brothers house for the weekend as planned. And i am sure I will hear about it from xh come Saturday which is when he planned on picking up ds7 from ds20's.
I am really tired of his games. And now that it is effecting my little boy, I'm thinking its time to go back to court....