What was the toughest thing about breastfeeding for you?
Breastfeeding was so hard for me. I ended up mostly pumping and feeding the breast milk through a bottle. Wondering what struggles other moms had. What questions did you have? What was hardest? What do you know now about breastfeeding that you wish you had known then?
A few things come to mind. First, the initial pain, which was pretty hard to work through. That pain went all the way back into my back, and hurt so mind I had to make myself not cry - and this as a seasoned nurser. Second, the comments. Yes, I am still nursing my 23 month old, and no, it's not your business. Finally, sometime I don't want to nurse, and she does, like during the night when I'm trying to sleep. But those complaints are minor - it's mostly a good experience.
For me everything about it hurt. I was told by a doctor that the pain that I was having was due to the fact that the top of my son's mouth was shaped in a way that was causing me to bleed. Despit the bleeding I was pushed to continue. It was a very fustrating thing for me and I cried the whole time he was nursing. Finially we moved to pumping and that made things a lot better for me but my production slowed and I finally dried up. I just wish that more people would of been more supportive of my choice to want to stop.
The commitment you have to put in for the first month or so. My son didn't want to latch correctly, we had to put sugar water on my nipples to get him to suck at first. It was so hard to deal with that. It is also hard when you are sleep deprived and hormonal to not just let someone else give him a bottle. I have an older daughter and ended up not breastfeeding for long, mostly because I had no idea what I was doing. Glad I stuck with it and actually loved it after the first month was over with and we were in a good rhythm.
My biggest problem was that my daughter was eating each 2,5-3,5 hours, so I was literally attached to her all the time. I couldn' even go for shopping alone without a rush: 30 minutes drive to the moll + 30 minutes back is already an hour, so it's only 1 hour left to enjoy the process. That was tough, but I'm very happy I breastfeeded her anyway!
Second time: just the horrific pain




- MomToLex710
on Jan. 9, 2013 at 8:01 PM