should i stay in a loveless marriage for the kids
No, but it's your job to work on it as best as you can. If you've tried therapy, counselling and all that jazz, then leave if you are still miserable.
Quoting GremlinMom:
I honestly believe that unless someone is cheating or abusive, you haven't tried everything to be happy again. Everything takes time, every marriage has a lull, some people just don't have the patience to wait it out. Some are boring and unhappy for a month or two, maybe 6. For 2 years or 10. But there will always be an opportunity to jumpstart the magic, you must recognize it and nurse the opportunity. It may or may not be the same kind of magic because of time. This is MY unprofessional opinion, not an accusation or suggestion.
no my mom did for yrs and it was a bad choice and she knows it, but in the same sence u have to ask ur self why is it loveless what caused it to be that way, is it something like him not picking up his socks or something is it cheating does he look at other women do u just feel unsexy does he say or do things that upset u all the time.... i mean marriages aent perfet but something caused th love to go away was it having kids and losing he freedom, find that answer before u decide on a divorce... when u look at him can u see the man u fell in love with If not u might want to look harder ask him why he feels that way too or if he sees the women he fell in lov with!!! when i married my hubby (yes we are young) i promised him that every day i would find a reason why i love him and that has made me love him more then the day i married him, we promised eachother thats how we would do things even if we fought.... i would stop and go quiet and look at him and id realize why in the world are we fighting and hes the only one i want to ever have a fight with.... be honest with ur self AND be honest with him and vice versa...be honest to ur heart......
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- Paulaspann42
on Jan. 23, 2013 at 4:00 PM