Hello all. So my husband and I used to be adventurous and kind of partiers. When he got this job we thought it was a great opportunity to move somewhere else and have a new adventure. Just two weeks after moving 300 miles from our friends and family I found out I was pregnant. If we were to plan a pregnancy, I'm certain we'd stay near home.
Upon this news we realized we wanted to move closer to oru families so he got a transfer to the northern division so we were only 1 hour from home. He then got promoted, and with a new baby we thought it'd be better for the security. It might be fun to move to a big city. Now that we've been her for four months I can't stand it. My family is full of new babies the same age as my 1 year old, i keep missing birthdays and my niece and nephew growing up who lived with me and my family since they were babies.
I'm shy but certainly not an introvert. I know I need people around me but people I'm comfortable with. I hole up in my house with my baby, try not to cry in front her. I've been to the emergency room for anxiety pain making me think I'm about to die or have a heart attack. I can barely breathe everyday. I'm so painfully morose I'm not sure what to do. My husband thinks its silly, his philosophy on life is "then just stop it." He's doing great at work, advancing and beloved my his co workers and then comes home to this sad sack.
Would it be incredibly selfish for me to demand we move back for my sanity? My dad wants to retire and said he'll hand the family business over to my Husband so it's not like we'd be back at square one, and it's a hugely successfull business with the potentional to be even more lucrative if moeny is the prime issue here. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.