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govement borrowing from child support?!?Another Update (in green)

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In the past 6 weeks I have only received 36.00 total. I am supposed to get 43.00 per week. When i called to ask what was going on all they said was "you will get all you money back" but would not explain where the money was. Today I had to explain to my landlod why i was short on rent, she said every mom that rents from her had the same problem, apparently the goverment needed to borrow the money for something!!!!! Luckily i dont fully depend on my child support but i know alot of moms do, isn't there somewhere else to borrow the money from besides single moms!?! Or at least WARN us so we can have backup plans!

Its one thing for a week or so, but 6 weeks????

 

I am not recieveing 36.00 per week, that is all i have been given total in the 6 weeks. I know they are taking the correct amount out of his checks, I had him show me his pay stubs.  I am not the only one this happened to, It has affected everyone in my town that receives childsupport, The Child support office will not explain where the money went o when we will get it back, they just claim we will be payed back.

 

My mom just called and said she had metioned it to someone at work, and they had seen it on the news. So I'm guessing its the whole state (indiana) Theres are multiple lawsuits agianst the goverment now because of it....I knew it had to be wrong. Look at it this way, Child support comes straight fom the mans check to the mother. It is in no way goverment aid, it is a man providing for his childen he helped create. So by taking our child support there pretty much just dipping there hand into the mans paychecks. They already take taxes out, they have no right to just decide they need the money more and take what they want. If thats the case then where is the line? Who says they cant just decide to take it out of your paycheck one day?

by on Feb. 4, 2013 at 10:45 PM
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my4loves4
by Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 11:54 AM

 

I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?

Quoting tiffs2009:

I live in OR and I've been having that problem too! My CSE case worker won't return my calls.


 

my4loves4
by Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 11:54 AM

 

I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?

Quoting Krystle21:

I live in MA, I haven't gotten a payment since 1/8. I just thought he wasn't paying or maybe out of work bc it comes directly outta his check.


 

my4loves4
by Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 11:55 AM

 

I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?

Quoting jackieb2811:

I think I am about to give my domestics division a call! I want to know where the money for my kids is! I am supposed to receive 150.00 every 2 weeks and when it is deposited it ends up being 138.00. It was 147.00 at first but in the last oh I would say 6ish months it had been lower the last deposite was 135.00. My twins father says the whole amount is being taken out so why the hell am I not getting it! I know it is only 15 or so  dollars but it adds up and I use it on my kids!


 

tiffs2009
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 11:56 AM
I'm not on pa, my kids get insurance cause their bio dad can't supply it. They can't take insurance out of CS cause its a diff bill with us.
I'm a SAHM, married. My ex and I were never married.


Quoting my4loves4:

 


I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?


Quoting tiffs2009:

I live in OR and I've been having that problem too! My CSE case worker won't return my calls.



 

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tiffs2009
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 11:57 AM
I know! One time he paid $55 and I got $6.15.

Quoting my4loves4:

 


I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?


Quoting jackieb2811:


I think I am about to give my domestics division a call! I want to know where the money for my kids is! I am supposed to receive 150.00 every 2 weeks and when it is deposited it ends up being 138.00. It was 147.00 at first but in the last oh I would say 6ish months it had been lower the last deposite was 135.00. My twins father says the whole amount is being taken out so why the hell am I not getting it! I know it is only 15 or so  dollars but it adds up and I use it on my kids!




 

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Krystle21
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:40 PM
SAHM, never been married to him, my kids get medicaid


Quoting my4loves4:

 


I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?


Quoting Krystle21:

I live in MA, I haven't gotten a payment since 1/8. I just thought he wasn't paying or maybe out of work bc it comes directly outta his check.



 


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Pammi86
by Pamela on Feb. 7, 2013 at 12:47 PM

Wow, thats insane!

jackieb2811
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 1:23 PM

I am a SAHM I do use Medical from welfare and no I was never married to my kids father. I am not single but not married either.

Quoting my4loves4:


I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?

Quoting jackieb2811:

I think I am about to give my domestics division a call! I want to know where the money for my kids is! I am supposed to receive 150.00 every 2 weeks and when it is deposited it ends up being 138.00. It was 147.00 at first but in the last oh I would say 6ish months it had been lower the last deposite was 135.00. My twins father says the whole amount is being taken out so why the hell am I not getting it! I know it is only 15 or so  dollars but it adds up and I use it on my kids!





my4loves4
by Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:36 PM

 The only thing we all have in common as a group is we are all SAHM... but why would they take from moms with no other income themselves? (I'm not including boyfriends or husbands incomes)


Quoting tiffs2009:

I'm not on pa, my kids get insurance cause their bio dad can't supply it. They can't take insurance out of CS cause its a diff bill with us.
I'm a SAHM, married. My ex and I were never married.


Quoting my4loves4:

 


I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?


Quoting tiffs2009:

I live in OR and I've been having that problem too! My CSE case worker won't return my calls.

 


 


 

my4loves4
by Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:38 PM

 

The only thing we all have in common as a group is we are all SAHM... but why would they take from moms with no other income themselves? (I'm not including boyfriends or husbands incomes)

Quoting Krystle21:

SAHM, never been married to him, my kids get medicaid


Quoting my4loves4:

 


I wonder if we all have something in common, why their taking it from us and not others. Do you work or are you a SAHM? Are you on medicaid or anything like that? Are you single, or divorced from the person who pays CS?


Quoting Krystle21:

I live in MA, I haven't gotten a payment since 1/8. I just thought he wasn't paying or maybe out of work bc it comes directly outta his check.

 


 



 

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