God has given me a love and heart for children and when a family member child is in trouble my husband and I take them in without any hestiation. however, I have not been tied down and have had FREEDOM for about 6 years. Our son is 22 and did not have to cater to his every move. Having a 13 year girl is total different and having the responsibility of timing now is a bit harder than expected. I love having her with us, just having a problem with being selfish on my behave of giving up certain FREEDOM and doing, going as we/I are used to doing. Please pray for us and thank you for listening.