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Do one or both of you smoke? If so, does he, or do you, disapprove?

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Question: Do one or both of you smoke? If so, does he, or do you, disapprove?

Options:

We both smoke.

Neither of us smoke.

I'm single, and I smoke.

I'm single, and I don't smoke.

I smoke, he doesn't, he doesn't approve of my smoking.

I smoke, he doesn't, he approves of my smoking

I don't smoke, he does, I don't approve of his smoking.

I don't smoke, he does, I approve of his smoking.


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Total Votes: 50

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by on Feb. 20, 2013 at 10:14 PM
Replies (21-30):
Karla1948
by VS120 Lady on Apr. 11, 2013 at 7:42 PM

Thank you all for voting! I found it interesting that women who do not smoke are less tolerant of their partner smoking than men are.  I ran this in another group with more traffic, the numbers were:

We both smoke. 21%

Neither of us smoke. 38%

I'm single, and I smoke. 2%

I'm single, and I don't smoke. 0%

I smoke, he doesn't, he doesn't approve of my smoking. 6%

I smoke, he doesn't, he approves of my smoking. 3%

I don't smoke, he does, I don't approve of his smoking. 21%

I don't smoke, he does, I approve of his smoking. 4%

Total Votes: 173

Of course, it's plain easier in a relation if both smoke, or neither smoke, and over half of the relationships are either one or the other.

MJP76
by on Apr. 11, 2013 at 8:11 PM

Neither of us smoke. We quit together 12 years ago.

Momma-2boys
by Member on Apr. 12, 2013 at 9:32 AM
I don't he does I wish he would only smoke outside or in garage by so far I've only hot him to stop smoking in the bedroom. I can't sleep with that smell
angelachristine
by Bronze Member on Apr. 12, 2013 at 9:56 AM
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me too. I wish he would quit so bad. He doesn't smoke in the house but i hate when we are out walking and the smell drifts over to me or when it clings to him and also the money, effects on health etc...

Also the fact that he doesn't smoke while we are in the van but if we aren't he smokes in it and the smell clings to everything. Gross!


Quoting Aubs1990:

He smokes, I dont and I dont approve.



It's Cassandra Cat! 

Imjustinsmommy
by on Apr. 12, 2013 at 9:57 AM

neither thank  god i hate smoking. 

Karla1948
by VS120 Lady on Apr. 12, 2013 at 9:58 AM

Did he smoke when you met him? Or did you both smoke when you met?

Quoting Momma-2boys:

I don't he does I wish he would only smoke outside or in garage by so far I've only hot him to stop smoking in the bedroom. I can't sleep with that smell


IpoopRainbows
by on Apr. 12, 2013 at 10:02 AM

 we both smoke, we both want to quit

Mandamom1
by on Apr. 12, 2013 at 10:08 AM
He smoked when I first met him and he quit because I didnt like it
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Megan11587
by Member on Apr. 12, 2013 at 10:10 AM

Pretty sure this wasn't phrased in such a way to spark a debate.

Quoting Rosies50:

Disgusting. Your not only hurting yourself but the people around you. People get help for doing things like cutting themselves, but not for smoking. You can die from one and scar from the other. How much sense is that?


myownparadise
by on Apr. 12, 2013 at 10:12 AM
I don't smoke. He does. I don't have to put up with it much because he is never really here anyway. He is generally respectful to me about his smoking when he is here, so it doesn't bother me too much.
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