Is it normal to get in a heated argument with your husband/significant other about once or twice a week? I know sometimes it's good to vent, but is it normal to get into an argument so bad that you don't want to be around the other person? Any advice would help!! And also, how can two people who are both hot headed stay calm in those situations? I can't seem to calm down quite as fast as other people no matter what I try to do.