My ex and I have been getting along for awhile now, he takes son every weekend, sometimes he has other things to do and dosent and I dont complain. He legally is supposed to provide everything for our son while he is at is house, but i ALWAYS pack everything he needs, theres been times i've even had to pack food for him for the entire weekend.
My ex and his new wife had a baby at the begining of this month. He has only taken our son one night since. (last night). I had a baby back in october, and have raised my son just the same as i did before.
My son is 3, we've been trying to potty train for a few months but having trouble with 'poop'. My ex claims i'm a bad mom because i put him in pullups. Because when hes at his house he only wears underwear and has no accidents. Our son WILL NOT poop there. Ex agrees he hasnt in months. My son says they put him in the corner for accidents. Hes suffered with constipation for awhile now because of this. Ex claims this isnt true. Son also refuses to eat there for the same reason.
Well last night, the first time they've taken him since their new baby they picked him up later than they said they would, when they got here they complained about what he was wearing because he was going to a wedding (they did not tell me beforehand so i dressed him as usual) Well ex said its okay, its not a dress up weading, so son started putting his favorite rain boots on with spiderman on them. (It was wet ands muddy out) My exs new wife, said "No those are ugly" That beyond pissed me off, i stayed calm but with a shitty tone replied "Hes 3, if he wants to wear his boots he can, its wet outside, isnt that what rain boots are for?' After they left i got a text from my ex saying I was out of line for talking to her that way. This REALLY pissed me off, She was in MY home, making fun of MY sons boots, how was I out of line?
Today they dropped him off early because 'they had things to do' As soon as he walks through the door my son says "I hate you mommy, Daddy and amy are my friends" I asked why he was saying that he says "Daddy says to"
What do I do? I cant afford a lawyer, and my exs church pays for everything for them. The church just got them a new house, bought them a car, a new tv, new furniture. Has even bailed BOTH the losers out of JAIL! Theres something corrupt going on there but idk what or why. I know the church will buy him a lawyer and since they are a church and SUPPOSED to be good people judges are going to listen to them! I am so lost, I have never been in trouble with the law, i dont do drugs, spank my kids, drink, anything that could be held agianst me, but at the same time I also know the law can be just as corrupt as the church. I'm afraid if i try to bring this all to court to get him to have less custody it will blow up in my face and he will get more.