I got pregnant with my first son, when I found out I was pregnant, DS bio dad thought I was lying just to keep him around. That was enough for me and I left it at that. I ended up with my now husband when I was 2 months pregnant. Our son has known him as nothing but his daddy. My husband and I also have a 1 year daughter now. We planned on leaving things the way they are and letting DS think that DH was his father. Now I'm questioning all the choices I have made, and I am now wanting to tell DS biological father that he has a child. But I don't know where to even begin.
DS bio dad knows that I have a kids (through mutual friends). I believe he just thinks that DS is my hunbands child, or atleast he forces himself to believe that.
I have found his biological father through Facebook, but that doesn't sound like the greatest way to contact him and let him know he was a child.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated! And please no back lash, I made my decisions for other reasons also. Thanks!