When our second child is born I want our son to come into the room and be the first to see the new baby without anyone else around so he can be totally himself and not shy around the new baby. My friend said she would only have her own children in their first. My ss is not interested in his younger brother now.. He pays no attention to him and really acts like he could care less about him.
On the other hand, I wouldn't want to upset dh by having our son in there first without my ss. But, in my heart of hearts I only want our son in there right after.
What would you do?