Sooo.. 1 of our night time news programs 'The Project' bought up the use of safety harnesses, although they called them leashes. Yes or no? Grrr to all those who say 'It looks cruel' or claim that its 'lazy parenting'. My darling children mean the most to me, and when DS4 who has behaviour problems runs off in a shop or car park and with little sis following close behind, when Im holding baby girl and trying to keep an eye on all 4 kids, Im not a happy camper! Most of the time now I get them babysat while I go to town but harnesses all the way when I do go with them all. What do you think?