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Do you keep secrets from your husband?

Posted by on May. 3, 2013 at 10:41 AM
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Im planning a surprise for my husband, it is taking a lot of moving parts and in doing so, I have to keep things that I am doing a secret.

I KNOW Im not doing anything wrong, but I feel like I am. If that makes sense.

My husband and I don't have secrets from eachother. It has always been our policy to be open and honest. It has worked for us for 12 years and because of this, I feel guilty. Crazy, I know.
He would not view this as secret keeping, just planning a surprise but I cannot help how I feel.

Do you keep secrets from your DH/SO?

Is it ever okay to keep a secret from them?

by on May. 3, 2013 at 10:41 AM
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jbirdsladie27
by on May. 3, 2013 at 10:41 AM
I don't but for a surprise party I would
MistressMinerva
by Jennifer on May. 3, 2013 at 11:31 AM

For a surprise party it would be okay.

goddess99
by Michelle on May. 3, 2013 at 11:33 AM

Only gifts or if I plan a weekend for us, that might be a surprise. Otherwise no.

cookierode
by on May. 3, 2013 at 11:36 AM
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i cant keep a secret from him for shit.  good luck lol!

Reina13
by Bronze Member on May. 3, 2013 at 1:57 PM
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Quoting cookierode:

i cant keep a secret from him for shit.  good luck lol!

I feel the same way...It is getting difficult. Plus I feel guilty..lol

MJP76
by on May. 3, 2013 at 3:49 PM

I think so for surprise purposes.

coolmomma1968
by on May. 3, 2013 at 4:11 PM

no never unless its something like reinas situation.

villagemamma
by on May. 3, 2013 at 4:16 PM

Im not that great at keeping secrets Dh and i usually end up give each other our gifts from each other early lol. Usually if i dont do to much overthinking or planning i can pull it off lol

HappyMommyToo
by on May. 4, 2013 at 9:48 PM

If it is a good thing you are doing and that is why you are keeping the secret..it is ok. But don't take it too far. My husband always knows..I can't keep anything from him unless it is only for a day or something.

Drienne13
by on May. 5, 2013 at 4:53 AM

Yes!!  To avoid conflict. I'm not up to anything. But, I often feel like he is.

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