Ohkay, mommies! Confession time! If your hubby or S/O had NO intentions of cheating, whatsoever, but liked to look at other women walking by when you weren't looking, would that upset you? My DH doesn't know this, but if I am out at the store, even if he's with me, and I see a good looking man walking by, I look. BUT, for me, looking at other men helps me realize the great man that I have, and they help me realize how attracted I am to my DH and it gets me all turned on for my DH. Like, I am comparing the two and no matter what, DH wins!