My husband and I have never gotten a will or any other legalities like that. Do you have a will? What is in it (not specifically). What other legal things do you have? Do you have "godparents" or something in your will stating who will care for your children should something happen to you (and spouse)? What if you don't have anyone you's trust your kids to? Where do you file this type of peperwork, with a lawyer or online etc?
Not a subject i think anyone likes to discuss.