Well let me just start off by saying that my 17 year old sister is pregnant. When I was pregnant I was 19 out of school and had a year of college under my belt. When my mother found out I was pregnant she flipped and was telling my boyfriend at the time(husband now) that I was never going to finish school & that he had pretty much ruined my life. Every time me and my mother would fight me & my boyfriend would come home and there would be something else they were making us pay. I couldn't stand living here so we got out. A year & some months later my parents found out that my 17 year old sister was pregnant & all along they were letting her dropout boyfriend live in our house. My mother acted like and still acts like it is okay for her to be pregnant! which it isn't. She makes sure to always cater to her & treats me like I don't know how to raise my own child. She questions me on everything that I do but everything that my sister does is fine. While they live at home my parents do not make her boyfriend pay a single thing. He to them is like a god. He can never do anything wrong. He doesn't have a job so there for he cant afford to pay for a baby. I understand that you might come to terms with it eventually if your teen daughter got pregnant but even when you do finally come to terms you shouldn't be all happy making sure to tell everyone you see like it should be something to be proud of. Yes I know that some teen moms and great moms! I was pregnant when I was 19. But what my mom & sister don't understand is that her social life is pretty much over unless your friends who don't have babies want to hang out. As my mom & youngers sister get closer I feel as if me & my mom are drifting apart. Sorry if this was kind of spacey & jumbled but I am just stressed to the max with this!
on Jul. 13, 2013 at 7:28 PM