Anyone married to a widower or is widowed and re-married ?
I am married to a widower, he had lost his wife 3 years before I met him. I am curious to know if you're in the same situation as me & how you go about dealing with that. Or if you are the widow and you are in a new relationship ...
I am very open / accepting of his first wife, I don't feel jealousy or anything. Although we don't have pictures of her hanging on the walls or anything he has kept picture of his wife and that's fine by me. I also visited her grave before we got married, I felt I should do it out of respect. He's kept things that were hers/theirs as a couple and I have integrated them into our home. I cook some of her recipes... some people are a little shocked at how comfortable I am with the whole thing.