I'm 23 with a 17 month old little boy and a little girl due to be born by c-section in 4 weeks. I have been feeling super tired and my DS has been going through this phase of not wanting to nap during the day. So I suggested to my DH that maybe we let his brother and wife babysit our DS for a day so I could get a day of rest before our DD makes her apperance. He told me that once you become a mom there are no days off and he is completly against the idea. He doesn't want anyone babysitting our DS, he'd be ok with just his brother but he doesn't like his SIL. I guess my question is does it make me a bad mom to want a day to myself before DD gets here?