when u have to give up ur baby for visitations to his/her birth father?
i was always told it would be easier as time went on but it doesnt seem that way, everytime we show her a picture of her birth father she runs and hides her face or shakes her head no, we show her a picture of my DH she says "DADA" and goes straight to him, when we have to hand her over, her birth father literally has to grab her and jerk here away because she is shaking her head no, screaming crying and holding on to our clothes for dear life either screaming for "MAMA" MAMAW" or "DADA"
yes its court ordered he take her but if she is acting like that how could u do that, im sorry but if it were the other way around i would not make her go, sure it would be hard on me but i wouldnt torture DD like that. he doesnt even want her, he never did not even when i was pregnant his mom and mamaw made him take me to court and everything else, she comes home with ten thousand times more bruises (yes i exaggerated) than she ever gets here, black eyes, she smells awful, she drinks like she hasnt had anything since she left, and she will always go straight to her bed and lay down and go to sleep.
i mean with her acting like this toward her birth father is this cause for alarm could he be abusive to her like he was me (long story about why he even has her, lets just say the judge said i was a liar) is it just a phase? does she really not like him i mean a neighbor told us she heard DD scream while he was driving past her house, thats not normal! and this is a good christian lady who i know would not lie especially when she doesnt know how DDs birth father was.
has anyone else went thru this or had to deal with giving their baby up like that, does it get easier? i know i just cant wait till she is 12 since in this state 12 is when they can chose and i pray to go she chooses me (im sure she will)