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Did You Have Your Son Circumcised?

Drop in Circumcision Rate Is Bad News for Baby Boys

by Mary Fischer

baby feetAccording to newly released data from the National Center for Health Statistics, circumcision rates for newborn boys have dropped by six percentage points over the past three decades. Annual hospital discharge data of between 7,000 and 12,000 baby boys was examined, and interestingly enough, the biggest dip in circumcisions occurred in western states in the U.S. as opposed to other areas of the country.

And I guess the data really isn't all that surprising considering how controversial the subject of circumcision has become, particularly in the last few years or so. It seems like more and more parents are becoming opposed to the idea -- something which I can't fully understand.

When my husband and I had our son seven years ago, the decision over whether or not to have him circumcised wasn't even a question. Our pediatrician performed it in the hospital the day after he was born, and not once did the thought of whether or not it was the right thing to do cross our minds.

First and foremost, we knew we wanted it done for hygiene reasons. It's so much harder to keep that area clean if the procedure isn't performed -- and we believed it would leave him more prone to infection if he was not circumcised.

Second, and I really don't care how stupid or cliche this sounds, we didn't want him to get teased in the high school locker room because he was the only boy who hadn't been circumcised. Seriously, have you ever seen an uncircumcised penis? I have. Once. While I was working in the toddler room at a day care center when I was 18 and had to change the diaper of a little boy who hadn't been snipped. It looks ... well ... different. Noticeably different. (And there was no way I was going to let my kid be the dude with the weird looking penis.)

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Lastly, we worried about how being uncircumcised might affect his sex life down the road. What kind of parents would we have been to put a damper on things in that department? We feared that it wouldn't be as pleasurable for him, or that it might be a turn off for a lot of women, which could be pretty humiliating. (I know I'd want to hop out of bed and run if I saw all that extra skin staring back at me.)

Yes, I understand why some parents are opposed to circumcision. I'll admit that reading about some of the horror stories that have occurred with the procedure are pretty scary. I can see where it might sway someone's decision as far as their baby boy is concerned.

But I'm just not sure that the decline in how many newborns are being circumcised is a good thing. Sure, every parent is entitled to his or her own opinion on the subject, and what they choose to do when their baby arrives is up to them. But hopefully before deciding not to go through with it, they'll do their research to ensure they're making the best decision for their child. Even the American Academy of Pediatrics says that the benefits of circumcision outweigh the risks, and that recommendation combined with the other three reasons I listed is more than enough to convince me to do it again if I ever were to have another baby boy.

Is your baby circumcised? Why or why not?

by on Aug. 23, 2013 at 8:42 AM
Replies (21-30):
mxcanapochamama
by on Aug. 23, 2013 at 11:59 PM

O, I get now :) Hubby and I feel the same way, we dont have any boys, but Im currently pregnant and if its a boy we arent getting it done. 

Quoting redbutterfly666:

It was meant to say there's no point in cutting something he was born with off

Quoting mxcanapochamama:

wow Ive never heard of that, but would you of done it if he was born with it intact?

Quoting redbutterfly666:

Nope,no point to it something he was born with off



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Momofmenagerie
by Bronze Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 12:00 AM
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Yes, it was our choice to. No further explaination needed.
Jenn8604
by Bronze Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 12:04 AM
2 moms liked this
Yep! Exact same reasons as the author.
There's no way Id leave my son to be made fun of in the locker room, in his sex life, and I want him cleaned.
Uncircumcised penis' are NASTY LOOKING!!!!
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redbutterfly666
by Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 12:05 AM
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Lol yeah i think I posted that comment right after df woke me up at 4 in the morning XD

But yeah we don't see a point to it so we didn't do it for ds


Quoting mxcanapochamama:

O, I get now :) Hubby and I feel the same way, we dont have any boys, but Im currently pregnant and if its a boy we arent getting it done. 

Quoting redbutterfly666:

It was meant to say there's no point in cutting something he was born with off



Quoting mxcanapochamama:

wow Ive never heard of that, but would you of done it if he was born with it intact?

Quoting redbutterfly666:

Nope,no point to it something he was born with off



momtotwo08
by Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 12:12 AM
Yes, both of my boys are.
deboramomof2
by on Aug. 24, 2013 at 12:19 AM

yes i had both my boys cir....

NoahsMommy10412
by Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 12:28 AM

Yes he is. My boyfriend and I both decided to do it if we got the money which we did. If we hadn't gotten the money it wouldn't have been a problem he would have been uncircumcised.

Irish_mama_2011
by on Aug. 24, 2013 at 6:55 AM

Did they take into account the boys who were circumcised outside of the hospital? Some wait, usually for religious reasons, we had our boys circumcised in the hospital, even though I wanted to wait because of my beliefs.

luvnature
by Bronze Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 7:59 AM

yes we had my son circumcised at one day old while we were still in the hospital. it was my husband's decision and I agreed with him on that. 

angelachristine
by Bronze Member on Aug. 24, 2013 at 8:01 AM
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No. We talked it though and decided not to. ds will be 6 next month and we have had no problems with it. We are still completely happy with our decision.

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