Have you ever met someone who is perfect for you but...
in the back of your head you wonder "What's wrong with this person?"
I'm talking to a guy & so far it's just that- talking. Well actually just texting. But anyway- he has told me a bit about his past & why he's divorced. I told him about my past as well. Nothing too bad so far. We're both looking for the same things in a relationship. He will start the conversation in one direction & then go a completely different direction with the old "Is that too much?" or "I don't want to sound inappropriate or anything" lines.
Ex: This evening he asked me if I ever lay in bed & just think. Of course I do, so I said "yeah pretty much every night. This is why I seem to never be able to sleep". And he says "I'm just thinking- & not to be inappropriate or anything but- this bed seems too big for just one person."
Or the other night he mentioned reading the book "The Five Love Languages" & I told him what my top 2 languages are- words of affirmation & acts of service. He tells me his are words of affirmation & physical touch. He says he likes to hold hands, kiss, cuddle... & I said "Yeah I don't mind those either LOL" & he replied "You probably don't like sex in general do you?" And I'm like HUH??? What brought THAT on!
IDK maybe I'm doubting things because this is the 1st guy who has an interest in me since my divorce over a year ago & maybe I "want" to find something wrong with him? OR... maybe it's my 6th sense telling me to get the heck out of Dodge now! LOL