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I am stay home mum.I have a beautiful baby girl who is 8 months old.Well its been more than a yr since i had my hair trimmed or colored etc.So i told my husband that i would like to cut my hair and color them too.

GUess what he said-He told me that  i am a stay home mum for now so why do u need to color ur hair or cut ur hair.'Why to waste money?

So i was wondering if i should b angry or sad.Coz right now i feel both.

by on Oct. 1, 2013 at 4:14 PM
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luvmybug
by Amanda on Oct. 1, 2013 at 11:09 PM
I would be livid! How dare he!!!
CalicoMeezer
by Member on Oct. 1, 2013 at 11:14 PM
Yeah, I 'd be mad too.
celestegood
by Gold Member on Oct. 1, 2013 at 11:15 PM

 All good questions.  I think its important to do things for yourself, whether you work or not.

Quoting supercarp:

Ask him if being a stay at home mom means that you should have no self esteem and no life of your own. If he doesn't even care what you look like, what kind of a husband is he?

 

celestegood
by Gold Member on Oct. 1, 2013 at 11:15 PM


Quoting luvmybug:

I would be livid! How dare he!!!
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honeygram4
by on Oct. 3, 2013 at 7:34 PM

Oh hun, I had a man tell me that and I stopped caring how I looked... don't loose sight of you, you are more than a MOM, you are a beautiful and intelligent woman so don't let him tell you that! You take care of you and don't ever loose sight of who you are!!! Your baby will appreciate a happy mommy also!!!

DanaG70
by Silver Member on Oct. 3, 2013 at 8:10 PM

 Tell him that it isn't a waste of money for HIS wife to look good and that he should be proud to have a wife that looks as good as you do!

Now go get your hair done! You deserve it.

KyliesMom5
by Member on Oct. 3, 2013 at 9:13 PM

 I would go and do it regardless of what he said.

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