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DV Emotional (4 years) PIOG

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I can't believe that this year on Sun I was headed to court to face my ex for Domestic Violence hearing. I still feel some days I'm in a fog and other days I want to cry. I know it's probably normal but there are days that I don't feel a thing. Lately I have been learning my place at home through my daughter. I must say the hardest thing is feeling the weight knowing I am playing both roles and not knowing when the next question will come out asking about her "dad".
by on Oct. 17, 2013 at 7:21 AM
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mmtosam06
by Bronze Member on Oct. 19, 2013 at 10:54 AM
True

Quoting .Peaches.:

You can't make someone be a father that doesn't want to be...personally, I wouldn't waste my time worrying or stressing about it, its not going to change anything.

My ex hasn't seen my two oldest girls for almost 2 years and he lives an hour and half away....I couldn't care less, he's not a decent parent by any standard anyways.

All you can do when she starts asking questions is answer in the best way she'll understand- you don't have to explain all the details, and you don't even have to explain everything all at once.

celestegood
by Gold Member on Oct. 22, 2013 at 12:58 AM
HUGE HUGS op! I wish you luck and happiness in life.

Quoting johnny4ever:

group hug

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celestegood
by Gold Member on Oct. 22, 2013 at 12:58 AM


Quoting Janet:

I know that has to be hard. Sorry hun.

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mmtosam06
by Bronze Member on Oct. 22, 2013 at 6:29 AM
Thank you

Quoting celestegood:

HUGE HUGS op! I wish you luck and happiness in life.



Quoting johnny4ever:

group hug

celestegood
by Gold Member on Oct. 22, 2013 at 9:30 AM
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You deserve it. And I mean that.

Quoting mmtosam06:

Thank you



Quoting celestegood:

HUGE HUGS op! I wish you luck and happiness in life.





Quoting johnny4ever:

group hug

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