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Should Women Who Breastfeed or Have Small Children Be Exempt From Jury Duty?

Posted by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 12:19 PM
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Moms of Young Children Should Be Exempt From Jury Duty

by Lisa Fogarty 

Few of us actually look forward to reporting to jury duty, but like good civic bees, we do what we must to keep our country's justice system functioning. But have you ever been asked to serve while you were in the middle of breastfeeding, taking care of your young children, and trying to keep your own family functioning? It can be an absolute nightmare to get around some state court's rules when it comes to jury duty and the responsibility of caring for children. And for one woman in Kansas City, her decision to bring her baby with her to court for jury duty so that she could continue to breastfeed may put her in contempt of court and cost her a $500 fine. Not exactly what you would call a just and fair ruling, is it? 

Laura Trickle was given a choice when she replied to a court summons and stated she was breastfeeding and would be unable to serve at this time: according to Missouri law, she could either report to jury duty and use a private room to pump milk and store it so her son could feed from a bottle at home, or she could report to jury duty with her baby and a caretaker and use her breaks to breastfeed. 

In the real world, these options don't always work out. Laura's son refuses to drink from a bottle -- something many of us can relate to -- and she either doesn't know of a caretaker whom she can trust or she can't afford to pay one for nine hours a day for, oh, however long the case may run! Laura did the best she could by bringing her baby with her to court. I mean, kudos to her for actually showing up, which is more of an effort than some people give. But the court didn't see it that way and now she has to report to her own court hearing to find out if she'll face penalties for not following directions.

Only 12 states currently exempt breastfeeding moms from serving jury duty, but we have to do better. Not only should all states pardon breastfeeding moms, there should also be an understanding that moms (and stay-at-home or work-from-home dads) of young children -- whether they breastfeed or formula-feed -- don't always have an easy time finding childcare solutions so they can serve jury duty.

My baby was 18 months old when I showed up to serve, and I had to practically beg lawyers not to put me on their cases. Because I worked part-time, the court deemed me fit to serve. But what they didn't get was that I didn't have a caretaker from noon until 5 p.m. or on Thursdays or Fridays and would have to pay for one -- for someone I didn't know or trust to watch my baby. The thought completely freaked me out and I guarantee my head wouldn't have been clear enough to properly judge a case. 

Do you think women who breastfeed or have young children should be exempt from serving jury duty?

 

by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 12:19 PM
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Marisol1106
by on Oct. 21, 2013 at 12:21 PM
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Yes, especially if they don't have child care too. I was exempt because I was home with twins and breast feeding them and I had no one to watch them so I wrote them a letter explaining.
catrig
by Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 12:22 PM
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yes
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rgba
by Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 12:22 PM
Yes.
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catrig
by Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 12:22 PM
Or even those who don't have adequate child care.
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johnny4ever
by Mrs. Depp on Oct. 21, 2013 at 1:37 PM

Hmm...I am on the fence.Voting is a privilege..if you really want to do Jury Duty then use a Breast Pump hours in advance I guess..Lack of child care yes I agree you cant do Jury Duty.

Jinxed8
by Silver Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 1:57 PM

I say yes any woman with a baby should be exempted

Janet
by Ruby Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:12 PM
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Yes they should. My DD wouldn't take a bottle. If you don't have someone to watch your children what are you supposed to do? Definitely YES!

Junebaby18
by Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:16 PM
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Yes I believe they should be exempt. I can see it being maybe ok if it's only a one day trial thing. It can go on day after day, week after week (and perhaps months) then no. There are even trials where they can't go be with family for weeks and months at a time. Baby can't even come to her for breaks to nurse. Also, a lot of bf babies won't take a bottle and that would not be good for the baby, and the stress it would cause for the mom and her milk supply would most likely tank.
mom4awesomekids
by Member on Oct. 21, 2013 at 7:40 PM

Yes

goddess99
by Michelle on Oct. 21, 2013 at 8:11 PM
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No, everyone has an excuse of why they don't want to serve but no one should be exempt.

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