I'm just looking to see what other Moms are going through if you have a similar situation. My husband and I have wonderful families, very loving, supportive and just great people. BUT when it comes to holidays we can't seem to be on the same page. They don't want to be together. They very rarely get together and when they do they try to have a good time. we have a 17 month old baby boy and we want him to spend the holidays with both sides of the family but it looks like it's impossible. What's to be done? How can we deal with this and make them happy? what would you suggest?