Do you have anyone in your family that just gets under your skin. For me it is my brother and sister n law they acted as if they are better than everyone else when in the light they arent. They recently had a baby and never bought a thing for her. Instead tey had three baby showers and Im not saying anything is wrong with a baby shower but I think that is a little over board. Everything they needed for the bbay was provided to them by someone. The grandma bought the car seat and playpen. They don't have a crib they just put the baby in the play pen to sleep. I think as a parent you should at least buy the big stuff, car seat, swing, bed, so on. Am I the only one that feels that way?