I've seen gift posts all over CM lately and I've hit my own dilemma and need advice.
DD just turned 1 a couple of days ago so after opening birthday gifts from family, we have discovered that there is going to be a plethora of duplicate gifts from other family when she opens Christmas gifts next week. Do I tell them and give them the opportunity to exchange their gift or is this one I should just keep my mouth shut and do it myself?
I told people months ago to tell me what they plan on getting her to avoid this, especially since her birthday is so close to Christmas, but clearly that didn't work. I'm glad so many people want to get her stuff (btw, she is the ONLY grandchild right now) but if this is going to happen every year, we have GOT to come up with a new plan.
Suggestions? Thanks ahead of time.