How do I tell my husband that I'm not going to be rolling over about his help around the house anymore? I've been between jobs and at first I was okay with cleaning the house. But during this time, I have gotten sick and he just walks right past what needs to be done. Case in point: dishes. I was dry heaving for about 6 hours last week. He gets home and I had already told him that I wasn't feeling good. He just saw the dishes, gave me "the look" (the one that says "Really, you didn't get that done?"), and walked away from them. He hasn't lifted a finger to help. Not one dish, load of laundry, or furniture dusted. I have a job lined up. I'm waiting on the temp agency to get back to me with start date details. So how do I tell him nicely (without jumping down his throat and pissing him off) that he needs to start helping around here?