I've been upset all day, just wanting to hug my kids. One lives 400kms away, and is working nite shift. I left him a message saying I love him. My daughter rang me when she got home from work, but was going to gave a shower and head round to her best friend Britney's to see if there was anything she could do, comfort wise at least. Brits mum collapsed last night, she's only a couple of years older than me, and she was dead pretty much instantly. Brain annuism.