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is it normal? losing myself

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I really need advice!!. I have a 4 yr old and a 1 mo old. When I had my first boy I was young and it was hard giving up everythin I use to do cuz I knew I had to grow up and learn to ne responsible. But then I feel I lost my self slowly.. now with my second one it got even worst. I sont even know what I like to do anymore.. there is nothing I find enjoyable anymore. I dont even feel close to my husband anymore.. i feel like a sombie with no feelings.. I just do what I need to do and thats it. Can I get some advice!! Oh and im not depressed tho just being thinking lately and not figuring out what I likr anymore.
by on Jan. 21, 2014 at 6:06 PM
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MellowMum330
by New Member on Jan. 24, 2014 at 2:37 PM

Completely normal! I've had days where all I wanted was an hour for ME only to find out that I have no idea what to do. I've been trying to help this by reconnecting with my husband and exploring new interests. 

Pammi86
by Pamela on Jan. 24, 2014 at 7:58 PM

It gets easier! *hugs*

goatmom4
by on Jan. 25, 2014 at 12:18 AM

i want be supportive but i had four little ones i was raised   in a big family    i was used to the commption you need mom time even if it is ten minutes all kids can understand time for    quiet mommy time    it is good and not selfish find somthing  

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