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My husband deslikes me after i hv put on weight!Does he love me!

Posted by on Jan. 23, 2014 at 5:46 PM
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My baby girl will be 1 yr old this jan 26th and we all r super happy and excited about it.but 

my husband is not happy with me.He keeps telling me i hv put on lots of weights.he tells me 

that my thighs,stomach are huge.He sometimes make fun of me.Before pregnancy i was 130lb and

now i am 155lb.So when we go out together i feel that he is ashamed to take me out coz i look

fat.Now adays i feel so ugly.He is true that i hv put on weight,but i am comfortable at this weight

but he says he doesnt like to see me like this fat.

by on Jan. 23, 2014 at 5:46 PM
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Meg2011425
by Member on Jan. 23, 2014 at 5:52 PM
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Sorry, he sounds like a jackass.
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by Mrs. Depp on Jan. 23, 2014 at 7:11 PM


Quoting Meg2011425: Sorry, he sounds like a jackass.

Sure does.

momto3B
by on Jan. 23, 2014 at 7:22 PM

My guess is that before the weight gain, he was not a nice guy to begin with. 

splatz
by Sarah on Jan. 23, 2014 at 8:49 PM
Wow.. sorry you have to deal with that.
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Pammi86
by Pamela on Jan. 24, 2014 at 8:14 PM
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Sorry but he needs a slap! You had a baby and will NEVER be the same! He needs to shut up!

m.garcia21
by Member on Jan. 25, 2014 at 9:15 PM
What an ass. Im sure hes not perfect etheir. Tell him whats wrong with him im sure he wouldnt like it , you could start by telling him what a jack ass he is
Mishy2
by on Jan. 25, 2014 at 9:29 PM
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 you gave him a child. That is not fair of him to say these things to you and make you feel poorly about yourself. have you tried telling him how his comments such as this makes you feel?

connie45
by Member on Jan. 25, 2014 at 11:17 PM
His idea of motivation is to try to shame you? What an arse.

Leave him with the child while you take walks or something else active and solo. If he is truly supportive, he will do it happily.
JT33
by on Jan. 25, 2014 at 11:20 PM

Wow really, that's not fat at all, I would love to be 155 again, haven't been that since middle school and I'm 33 sooo..... If it hurts your feelings, do you tell him?

Sbellemommy
by on Jan. 25, 2014 at 11:24 PM
He is an ass. I'm sorry. But until you decide that you're beautiful regardless of the weight you won't be happy with anyone.
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