Sd is a pain in the butt most mornings. Typically I wake her up as my husband works late nights and I have class at 9 so ill wake the kids, dress sd and take my younget to school before heading to my class. Except on Fridays I work so dh wakes up with the kids. This morning sd was being her typically crab apple I don't like mornings self. So she missed the bus and dh had to take her. He text me saying she's grounded I said ok she can set out 10 mins of swim practice tonight. ( She's on special Olympics swim team and they are off next week so I didn't want her to set out of the whole thing. ) We get there she sets out, explains to her friends why she didn't come early like we typically do so they can play, swims and did really good at all of that I was shocked.
She asked if she could call her mom after practice to tell her about how long she stayed under water. I said sure she ended up telling bm that I made her set out and told her why. I was so pissed bm said "what an evil sm" I snatched the phone and hung up.
I know i over reacted but we pay for swim team and I have been fighting with drs to fix sds physical because bm messed it up. Some how though I'm an evil sm? I told sd that I was sorry for snatching the phone her but it wasn't nice for bm to call me evil. I told her it was like a bad word she understood. I'm still a little steamed.