Hi everyone, I don't post here often but hoping for advice. My husband & I are close to upgrading to a bigger home. It's the home of our dreams, swimming pool & awesome playground for our kids. Now that the contract has been signed, I have been physically ill with worry about the pool & my 3 yr old son. He is a fearless daredevil. I have been crying nonstop over the 'what ifs'...I could never forgive myself if something happened. The pool has a gate around it (which I think my son could climb over if he really wanted to). Now I'm freaking out over him sneaking out in the middle if the night to try to use it. I have done some research & there are pool alarms that go off if anyone goes in the pool. There are door alarms that sound off if a child tries to walk thru it. Does anyone have any experience with this? I am freaking out so much, haven't had anything to eat in over 24 hrs & as patient as my hubby tries to be, I think my paranoia is frustrating him. He has given me the option of walking away from the contract w/o any penalty. Any advice please??
on Mar. 18, 2014 at 11:05 AM