My daughter is almost 16, her boyfreind of 9 months is almost 18. I have a very open and honest relationship with both my daughter and her boyfriend. They are both unique people who are struggling with some difficult issues around sexuality. I know they are not having sex because I ask and I know they are being honest with me, however, yesterday after a long walk together, her boyfriend called me and asked me not to ask my daughter what they discussed. I knew that he was going to have a real heart to heart talk about some tough issues that have recently come up, but his asking me to "not ask questions" was odd especially since I really wouldn't have thought much of this until he said something. I brought up how odd this was to my daughter and she assured me that they are fine and then dropped the subject. Obviously I think that they are talking about starting a sexual relationship which I wish they would not do, but if they are, I definately want to know about it. Should I keep prying or let this go? Both of the kids have been fully educated about birth control, where to get it and that I will make sure they have it, but do I just let them figure this out? Seems like a bad idea. Would you pry some more to find out what they talked about or drop this?