Okay so I have been with my sons father for 2years & we have a 5montj old son. He is currently in Jail so I am at home with our son everyday. We go see him every week & talk almost everyday. He has been in there a whole year so he wasn't there through my pregnancy, the birth or anything really. I have waited for him this whole time faithfully. My dilemma is that he thinks because he has fines & things to pay off when he is home that it is okay to talk to other woman for money. But I'm not stupid you know. Idk how to tell him that it is not okay with me & that if he truly loved me he would go through the struggle with me. How do I tell him? I've been trying to tell him all the time but it's like he doesn't understand. I find it disrespectful that he wants yo do that. I have had 2 surgeries since I had our son & I've been sick ever since in & out of the hospital & still managing to take care of our son & handle business. I know I'm a good mom & girlfriend but is it wrong for me to feel like I am? Considering his thought process after being in there a year & some months. What should I do?
No Bashing please